Domestic fights
GOD do I hate fighting. I hate hearing parents, children etc fighting, - throwing things at each other. Currently next door to me, seems to be an ongoing fight for the passed 30minutes ongoing. I can hear things flying across and bashing. A lot of swearing, blasphamy, dirthy filthy words being splat out,....children fighting, but really, I think they're a bit older, perhaps early 20's, mid-to-late teens.
Doors banging - more swearing - more shouting!!! GOD do I hate this.
If there's one thing that I truly hate in life is fighting, - arguments, discussions etc are acceptable, but raising your voice in order to attempt to dominate the person you're in conflict with is a waste of energy. True, and valid that they do work, but not a civilized form of communication. I hate fighting, I dispise it - especially when it happens between family or friends. Would rather just walk away, cool down my anger and similarly of the other person then talk about it later in a quiet manner.
But, to shout and fight, throw things acroos, - make a scene, attract attention from the neighbours is something sad. As children, we all fight with our parents, siblings etc, and make scenes, though, in reality we should learn some discipline and control.
A Family should try to avoid hanging their dirty laundry for others, and similarly when living in an apartment building, - your apartment is not your privacy when your neighbours can hear you, and even more so when the guy walking down the streets hears you, or as in my current case, the next building hearing you.
Hate domestic violence with a passion.
posted by Tiger @ 10/17/2006 02:21:00 PM
3 Comments:
yes it's awful to watch these fights in places which has to be full of comfort and happiness, the bad news children will behave like their parents in future also. No one like fightings but the decission is not only enough to quit this,it comes with practice day by day.
You know Nimer I hate fighting too, but I discovered that this behavior sometimes is needed, an example would be that some people don't understand the civilized discussion and think that you are weak to defend yourself when don't get into fighting with them,anyway this is not what i'm writing about,I discovered that the fighting behaviour is acquired from those around you, especially parents,what I mean here is that it becomes rooted deep that its the only way to convince others, and you always feel that you are targeted when opposed by others,or when others disagree with you.
good post, thank you,
parents should pay attention to the way they bring up their children.
I think most of Jor need a training in conflict resolution!
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